I recently I read a line from a friend's Facebook. Basically it was something along the lines of:
-- There are some instances where you put your all into something and it doesn't work out. And that's okay. --
It may suck, but sometimes things just aren't supposed to work out. Sometimes the Universe, God, Allah, or whatever you choose to believe in -- has a plan for us. Maybe you are supposed to lose a friend and shed those tears in order for another page in your life to start being written. Maybe that relationship was supposed to fail, perhaps the date you thought went perfectly fine was meant to really never develop.
I'm not trying to suggest that this is "okay" and for people just be fine and dandy with wherever life takes us, hell, you should be angry, screaming, crying, pissed at the world and everyone you see. You should have that moment where you just feel like all the color has been drained out of you, where you feel gray inside. Take your time getting past things. I know...the hard way how difficult it is to just try to pick yourself back up time and time again. When everything just seems like it couldn't get worse and you'd rather just go back to being a 3 yr old, or just not continue living at all.
This is just a thought that our lives aren't over just yet and who knows what could happen, so take your time and just try to realize that although you feel like shit right at this moment, eventually things will become different and you (along with the Universe, God, etc.) play a large role in this step. Try to send out good vibes to the Universe..and, with time, you'll get something in return.
I'm doing this now, and it's hard sometimes, and I have times where I doubt if this will ever help (and that's okay too, it's normal). But just don't be too hard on yourself and go with the flow.
