Day 14: Family Woes & NYC Hoes Pt. 2

So off to the second topic

So I did something on my list, this past friday I went to my first gay bar (which some people would find that hard to believe)! Well, I think more importantly I finally got to hang out with Lisa Wang--probably the most unreachable girl in town! I'm really glad I hung around in the city forever ..hoping for a random friend to respond to my call/texts of asking to hang out because it ended up happening! That reply back from Lisa Wang at 8pm saved my night! We finally ate around 1030 (for dinner...) caught up and planned out the rest of the night. Went bar hopping in st. marks  when we met up with other friends and landed at a gay bar my co-worker suggested that I go to. I'm glad I took this risk and am glad I was with good friends to help/laugh at/save/direct me throughout the 90 minutes we were there for (or maybe it was two hours?) Long story short, there were some CRAZIES there who were actin a fool coming on to people, two fail moments for me, a good amount of older and younger men there, a few success moments (ex: making out and getting groped LOL), and cheap+strong drinks!

Overall I (and everyone?) had a good time and it was a less crazy environment than I expected, everyone was pretty chill I think, people aren't going to run to you that much unless you kind of give them a signal that you are interested. This is true in life, you have to give something to the Universe in order to get something back. Then again, there will be others who are extra forward who will roll up to you. I've come to notice that I'm a hit with older guys lol. ALSO I need to mention that I should toss my glasses and get my new contacts ASAP--people don't like glasses! AND another thing, after I had a success, my friends just up and left and were going towards a place to "find something to eat" (I have reason to believe that..that may not be true lol) because they thought, that, well, I was not coming back to their apartment Friday night. I just said, "Guys! I'm not like that!" To be honest though...perhaps if circumstances were different..things may have progressed a bit further but some people need to find apartments in closer areas. Okay to set the record straight, I'm not a ho lol, as you know if you read a post or two, I honestly just want a relationship and someone to share time with but until that opportunity presents itself again, I need to "get mine." Perhaps this is the route I need to travel for now; get myself out there, mingle around, learn another thing or two about interacting with other men, find some cool bars (and clubs) and build up my resume. 

Seems like this could be a fun road, I honestly can not do it alone though you know? (Given, I had the drive to say "I don't care where we go, we are ending up at a gay bar tonight!" Woot!) I would not feel comfortable going to a bar/club alone, I think it's weird and I..would probably be taken advantage of somehow. I think a friend or two are definitely needed(and wanted) to accompany me to places..just for mental security. And they would most likely be girls since I barely have any gay friends. (I think I have three..and two don't like each other and I'm not close to any of them.. just wonderful). They all know I'd do the same for them if they needed something like that to be done for them at a club/bar and I have done that for some friends before soo they owe me! Sooo yeah, woot for friends! A good amount of my friends are in long term relationships..which sucks for single people who are looking for just that you know! Lol, I can't help that feeling!

I also realized that the past 2 posts didn't really end up centered around woes..or hoes...well I really liked that title!

Until next time, see ya!