--will you cross paths with someone you havent seen in a while?
Have you thought about of facebooked someone that you have not seen lately, or in a very long time for that matter? Have you ever wondered if you'll ever see that person face to face, or when you'll cross paths with that person?
I always wondered about how the world works, and if "running into someone" is more than just a coincidence. I have not thought or investigated too much into this, but sometimes it's really refreshing running into people sometimes. Maybe we all make a certain impact on one another indirectly, maybe good memories resurface, or new memories are created, it's all very interesting.
Hmm, I suppose this was a rather boring post but when do you think is the next time you'll cross paths with someone?
Sunday, December 27, 2009
I'm way tardy for the party
So I am VERY tardy for the party. It's been too long Mr. Blogger!
To sum up the rest of the term, I worked hard, and played harder (with people I enjoy a lot). I also tried to venture into another circle of people [A different circle from the one I mentioned in earlier posts duringt he beginning of the year (those people are my peoples!), I started hanging with these people.. like in early December], who I soon found out did not really want me their to begin with, I though I was cool with them until I found out how they felt about me, which made sense after a while. (And honestly, they were most likely intimidated, and I am a 5-Star.. and they were 3-Star status and I shouldn't have been settling for a group of lack luster people.)
But back to this past term, I think it had treated me well, although I found it very difficult to keep the connections i had with some people as taught as they should be. It's just hard managing friends, I know that's not the best way to put it, but that's exactly how it feels sometimes. Like at one point in the beginning of the semster I actually had lists of "friend goals" like "have lunch with __" or "call ___" or "make a party with ___" until I had too many people that I wanted to be relatively apparent in their lives.. then one after another.. I lost track of people. I am still very sorry for that and I did try my best to keep in touch with everyone. That's why during this break, I'd like to somewhat remedy that with people who live around here and makeup for the dead weight loss that I incurred from wasting my time with that other random new circle that could have been put to use more productively I suppose. This has overall, in addition to being very studious, a very social term, I do't think I met this many new people in a single term. And I liked it, but it had some side effects for some other of my friends, I don't really think I'm that apparent in another circle of mine and that they slowly not really included me on things as the term progressed.. I understand why but at the same time, the same exact thing happened last semester (because we were all really busy again and didn't have classes together) and we all seemed to get back on track. Now it's different, I can't put my finger on it, but the only I can do is ask to hang out right? We shall see.
Those were the main components of this past term, OH and of course going to the library and crazy studying, I soon begin to live in the stacks with some good friends ahah! Although after a while I got a little sick of it, since it was really cold and I'd have to work with my coat on lol. I came to realize that I can only go to the library when I feel disorganized and need to do alot of work and can't possibly do the massive amount in my room, then I go to the library and can be mega productive, however if I'm just in a mindset of "well I should go to the library.. because I guess I'll be more productive?" then the library will have no effect and I was probably not be as focused. In those cases, I should be in my room, as I can be more productive there. I learned this towards the end of finals week lol. Alas, the stack led to good times, and we got closer and eventually effectively ousted the "other" people that would try to come lol.
This term overall was great, a lot of good and surprising things happened in addition to over stressing like I usually do (BUT SOME OF THE THINGS THAT HAPPENED... THE STRESS WAS WARRANTED). Although I would prefer to get closer with some people that I met (and continued to hang out with) a few months ago and reconnect with others. I think that taking it slow or taking it however the world gives it to you, is the best way to do things.
Until next time
see ya.
To sum up the rest of the term, I worked hard, and played harder (with people I enjoy a lot). I also tried to venture into another circle of people [A different circle from the one I mentioned in earlier posts duringt he beginning of the year (those people are my peoples!), I started hanging with these people.. like in early December], who I soon found out did not really want me their to begin with, I though I was cool with them until I found out how they felt about me, which made sense after a while. (And honestly, they were most likely intimidated, and I am a 5-Star.. and they were 3-Star status and I shouldn't have been settling for a group of lack luster people.)
But back to this past term, I think it had treated me well, although I found it very difficult to keep the connections i had with some people as taught as they should be. It's just hard managing friends, I know that's not the best way to put it, but that's exactly how it feels sometimes. Like at one point in the beginning of the semster I actually had lists of "friend goals" like "have lunch with __" or "call ___" or "make a party with ___" until I had too many people that I wanted to be relatively apparent in their lives.. then one after another.. I lost track of people. I am still very sorry for that and I did try my best to keep in touch with everyone. That's why during this break, I'd like to somewhat remedy that with people who live around here and makeup for the dead weight loss that I incurred from wasting my time with that other random new circle that could have been put to use more productively I suppose. This has overall, in addition to being very studious, a very social term, I do't think I met this many new people in a single term. And I liked it, but it had some side effects for some other of my friends, I don't really think I'm that apparent in another circle of mine and that they slowly not really included me on things as the term progressed.. I understand why but at the same time, the same exact thing happened last semester (because we were all really busy again and didn't have classes together) and we all seemed to get back on track. Now it's different, I can't put my finger on it, but the only I can do is ask to hang out right? We shall see.
Those were the main components of this past term, OH and of course going to the library and crazy studying, I soon begin to live in the stacks with some good friends ahah! Although after a while I got a little sick of it, since it was really cold and I'd have to work with my coat on lol. I came to realize that I can only go to the library when I feel disorganized and need to do alot of work and can't possibly do the massive amount in my room, then I go to the library and can be mega productive, however if I'm just in a mindset of "well I should go to the library.. because I guess I'll be more productive?" then the library will have no effect and I was probably not be as focused. In those cases, I should be in my room, as I can be more productive there. I learned this towards the end of finals week lol. Alas, the stack led to good times, and we got closer and eventually effectively ousted the "other" people that would try to come lol.
This term overall was great, a lot of good and surprising things happened in addition to over stressing like I usually do (BUT SOME OF THE THINGS THAT HAPPENED... THE STRESS WAS WARRANTED). Although I would prefer to get closer with some people that I met (and continued to hang out with) a few months ago and reconnect with others. I think that taking it slow or taking it however the world gives it to you, is the best way to do things.
Until next time
see ya.
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